Dressed to Impress?

It's so judgmental to assume I am a easy because I dress sexy. I dress how I want. Just because I CAN dress hot and they can't, why should I stop?

If you dress like a whore, then people will think you are a whore. You can call me judgmental, but I am telling you the truth. Your character cannot defy how you dress. How you dress defines who you are. Why?

Girls and guys think differently. I once heard that, "Men fall in love with their eyes, women fall in love with their ears." Males are visual, just ask a teacher. A teacher can lecture forever, but if you want the males to learn, you need to stimulate them visually: charts, drawings, puzzles, etc. When you accept that you send a message with your clothes, consider who responds to your message.

The bait you use determines what kind of fish you catch. If you want a guy who just wants to take off your clothes, then save him time and don't put as much on. If you want a guy who'll appreciate you for more than just your naked body parts, then you've got to change how you dress. Put on more modest clothes and leave something to the imagination.

Don't mistake your ability to inspire lust with empowerment and love. There's something deeper going on that you need to think about. You can have half of the guys at your school falling over to get you, but that doesn't mean they'll love you. You are beautiful and you don't have to undress to prove that to anyone. God created you beautiful and He loves you. You are precious.

"They certainly would blush if they could guess the impression they make and the feelings they evoke in those who see them." Pope Pius XII, 1954

-Matt